We cannot find happiness unless we imagine it.
Life is a long walk to the destination.
If we don’t set the scenery we have in mind as our destination, we will never get there.
Our happiness lies in reaching our destination while enjoying the walk.
If we don’t have a destination in mind, we get lost and keep wandering.
We clearly define our ideal paradise.
Among the scenery we see as we walk, we continue to walk towards the scenery that is closer to that utopia.
Acquiring social skills and moving towards happiness are different.
Acquiring social skills only guarantees safety as we continue walking, such as not falling into pitfalls or getting hurt by obstacles.
Using social skills to break down obstacles and advance can lead to acts of harm.
As we continue walking, we are drawn to various smells and sometimes head towards them.
This smell makes us addicted, and this is not connected to happiness.
One of these smells is a sex drive for many people.
As we continue to walk, we are led by smells and head towards them, which leads us to deviate from the path that leads us to true happiness.
Even if we are drawn to a place by a strong smell, it is not a comfortable place; a strong smell is just a strong stimulus.
Even if we lose our way and feel disgusted, we must not go wild.
It is important for us to visualize our utopia once again, right then and there, and continue walking in a direction closer to that view.
“Be clear about our destination,” “don’t be drawn in by strong smells,” and “don’t break obstacles.” If we keep walking while adhering to these principles and reach our destination, we will find the comfortable place we seek. It’s a fulfilling place.
Our happiness lies in enjoying comfortable walks and living in a fulfilling place.
Are you heading towards your utopia?
Are you walking along a cozy promenade?
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